Not really in a chatty mood right now. DH and I have officially decided that our marriage is over now. Its a mutual decision on both of our parts. There are no hard feelings towards each other just figuring out what to do next.
But no post is complete without a picture so here is a new pic of Maddie.
But no post is complete without a picture so here is a new pic of Maddie.
9 comments:
Oh wow, I am so sorry to hear this. I am sure you are keeping your kids as your most important thought and that is the best thing. I hope everything goes smoothly for you. {{hugs}}
I hope that's not the final case. I am sorry you're going through difficult times, just make sure you don't do it alone.
Oh my goodness. I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say. This is obviously difficult for you, your kids, your husband.
Hugs to you and prayers for you. Please take as much care as possible of yourself as you go through this very, very difficult time.
I am so sorry for you and everyone involved.
I am so sorry. Best wishes for you and your daughter.
Please forgive me for coming back, but I'm just very moved by this, and not wanting to be overly intrusive. There's a wonderful book, probably pretty cheap at Amazon.com, but lots of libraries have it too: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay, by Myra Kirschenbaum. It's a book about relationship ambivalence, about when you're struggling to figure out whether you should or shouldn't end it. Please understand that I may be completely foolish here, not realizing how you've already evaluted everything there is to evaluate in coming to your decision. But in case you're still struggling with the decision, I wanted you to know about this resource. The author helps you evaluate many dimensions of your relationship. And if you decide to end it, it helps validate your decision. If it helps you see some things that are still salvageable, it helps you see what it is that you need to work on. I just felt I had to add this.
So sorry you are going through this... ((((((Hugs)))))) to you and your beautiful kids!
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